May girls submit to submissive men
Do men like submissive women?
Perhaps this is a trending topic, especially given the cultural and political wars in the media. We hear it on social media all the time and even from person to person.
A real woman, a strong feminist woman, should be empowered and not take crap from a man. She should always speak her mind. And submissive women are weak, terrible girls with low self-esteem. They chase after dominant men - like billionaire BDSM master Christian Gray - because they have no will of their own.
And then others say that men actually don't want to marry these feminists - they WANT submissive women. They want women who are pleasant to be together in the traditional Playboy Playmate way, croak, adore, and be sexy.
Well, having discussed both of the 'extreme' points of view, we find the truth somewhere in the middle.
Feminine and Feminist?
First, I never believed that feminism was in opposition to being an attractive and desirable woman. You can be both. If you like to dress like that or act feminine and flirtatious, this is great. Why not use your personable personality to attract men AND fight for social causes you believe in, like equality?
On the other hand, it is absolutely NOT true that men are only looking for submissive women who have no personality. And if you go through life trying to please a guy by pretending to be perfect, safe, nice, and attentive, he won't feel any real chemistry, at least not beyond a one night stand.
The reason for this is that men want to feel dominant and powerful, BUT once they get to that point, they want a woman who is strong enough to suit them.
Strong men respect strong women, at least when it comes to marriage. Very few rock stars ever marry their groupies. Very few billionaires ever marry “sugar babies” who just want to have sex, receive gifts and pretend to be playmates.
These are distractions for men, but not the type of woman they fall in love with.
That's why if you are serious about landing a good man, a successful man, and a man who will love you beyond looks and money, that's why you need to show him it's you:
• And not threatening!
I know the last one sounds a little weird, but I really think a lot of men are threatened by women who have negative attitudes. I don't think feminism is inherently negative, but there are certainly people who go too far and always see men in a negative light.
This is what turns men off. It is not a strength, nor is it a firm opinion. Men LOVE women who have strong morals, strong ethics, and the confidence to speak their minds. A woman like this reminds a man of his mother, someone he loved very much for teaching him how to be a better man.
What they don't answer is a woman attacking him, or even a woman who makes it her business to be hostile to men. And that's a natural response.
Sure, there are many men who are feminist or who believe in feminist ideals. But they won't all react the same, they won't all protest on the street, and they won't all itch after a fight with someone they disagree with.
Every man expresses himself differently. It's up to you to learn who this guy is and how he really feels about all of these issues.
The secret, then, is to involve the man you enjoy talking to and gradually let him discover who you are, always speaking to him in a respectful and friendly manner.
Respect is not submission at all. Respect is what we give ourselves as responsible adults. When we're in a professional or casual environment, we owe each other the benefit of the doubt. We accept the best in people.
If the man you like notices you first, he will accept the best. That you are smart, successful and kind ... and that will fascinate him. Not the bad attitude and NOT the 'yes, master!' Submission that people accept, men want.
When should you be submissive?
Is there ever a time when it's good to be submissive? For example, when a man is speaking, should you listen and agree with his point of view? Or does he expect you to keep contradicting him to prove yourself?
Submission, defined as 'willing to submit to or give in to someone else's authority,' means that you would suppress your own desires, opinions, and feelings just to give in to someone else's authority.
The only case where this would be appropriate would be if you and your lover were playing some type of BDSM game where you both enjoyed the dominant-submissive sexual tension. But honestly, outside of the bedroom, that attitude is out of date in real life ... and trying to be a 19th century housewife is not going to impress a man today.
Especially the kind of man with a heart that you are looking for.
On the other hand, showing respect to a man is simply civilized and mature behavior, and that is a quality any man will find attractive. What does respect look like?
'Respect' listens when someone speaks. You accept what another person says (since it is a valid opinion) but if it contradicts your opinion, you can explain why you disagree. Or, if the conversation isn't that important, you can let go of the disagreement and talk about something else.
'Respect' means that you respect him for his character, intelligence and ambition, just as he has shown you respect. You are not 'submissive' to him because he is a man - you just care about him as a person. You want to learn more and explore this attraction that you both feel.
As you can see, submissiveness is just a sexual quirk or sometimes a running joke between a husband and wife who 100% respect each other as equals. You don't have to submit to a man and suppress your opinion or your feelings. Speaking openly and honestly to a man, with confidence, with empowerment, is what he needs to see in order to feel that pull!
The 5-word phrase that will destroy a man's love for you and drive him out of your life
There is a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy a man's love for you and completely drive him out of your life ...
It's usually an honest question when you want to connect with him ...
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from within ...
It can take a man who is full of love and passion for you ...
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested ...
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they feel unsafe.
And then you are confused why he suddenly withdraws and disappears completely ...
Most women who ask about it don't even know how harmful it is ...
However, it may take a relationship that seems perfect ...
A relationship in which you feel loved, cared for and as if you had finally found "the one" ...
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Leaving you confused, frustrated and heartbroken ...
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