Have you ever had accidental sex?

Sex With A New Partner: How To Start Your Adventure With A Bang

You made it past your third date or the Tinder match, and it's time to have sex with a new partner. So don't forget to keep these things in mind.

Honestly, most of the time the first time I have sex with a guy, I'll accidentally hit them in the balls - that's all I can do. Don't ask me if they'll ever call me again, you're removing the point.

Sex with a new partner is exciting because you want to explore, but it's also terrifying. You are trying to see if the two of you connect with each other while also trying to figure out what they like and dislike in bed.

Let's just say, as fun as it is, it's mind blowing too. Well, I'm not saying these tips will bring you the best sex, it's up to you and your partner. But these tips will help you enjoy the experience and put your mind at ease as you are prepared.

What to do when having sex with a new partner

Let's be honest - sex with a new partner isn't usually a scene from a Hollywood movie. We all want it, but come on, this is real life. And it can be a little messier and more complicated. But don't worry, keep these things in mind and you'll be fine.

# 1 Take the hygiene down. You'll be rubbing your body against her body, so take an extra five minutes to use some soap and give yourself a good scrub. You will be amazed at how people value those who take care of themselves. Have you ever had sex with someone who hasn't showered in two days? Well I hope you never have to. It's traumatic.

# 2 You determine what your genitals will look like. There is this struggle between having everything waxed / shaved completely and leaving it natural. Whatever you choose is your choice.

Don't let yourself be influenced because you think it's socially acceptable. You need to make your genitals look the way they are supposed to look. I had a Brazilian wax once and I hated it, I looked like a naked mole. That being said, that confidence showed in the bedroom.

# 3 Wear something that makes you feel sexy. That doesn't mean you are wearing something that is sexy. This is based solely on what you think is sexy.

If you feel sexy and wear blue underwear, wear blue underwear. If you like boxers over panties, wear the boxer shorts. If you put on something that makes you feel hot, you will show more confidence, and you will be more open and relaxed in bed.

# 4 Have protection. Whether you are the man or the woman, you should always take responsibility and protect yourself. You shouldn't rely on your partner for protection because, well, there will be moments when they won't. So always carry an extra condom in your wallet or handbag.

# 5 Choose your beauty standards. You don't have to have a face full of makeup to have sex with a new partner. You don't have to go completely natural either. You choose how you want to look.

You don't have to wear a nurse outfit to impress your partner or to gel your hair to look straight out of GQ. Who fucks it? This person is having sex with you so they obviously find you attractive. Don't sweat it.

# 6 Keep communicating. You don't have sex with yourself. You are having sex with another person. And because there are two of you, you need to check in with them and see if they are ok.

Ask them if you like them, what you do, etc. Now don't ask everyone Die Zeit or else it gets annoying, but if you are unsure, ask.

# 7 Don't expect anything. Don't expect your first time to be great. Don't expect it to suck too. For most of us it takes a couple of times to understand our partner what they like and what they don't like. So if there is a sexual connection between the two of you, the sex will be good. It might not seem overwhelming, but it takes time.

# 8 Slowly and steadily. Don't jump with the gun. I mean, if you guys make out in the club for hours, I get it. But if not, take your time and focus on foreplay.

Explore the bodies of others, try them and see every moment. Quickies are all well and good, but the real passionate sex is when it's hot, messy, and sensual. This will need time.

# 9 Laugh at uncomfortable moments. If you accidentally skip a fart or miss her mouth trying to kiss her, just play it off. You don't care, if at all, when you laugh.

It will show that you are not taking it too seriously and that will make you both relaxed. You should always laugh when you have sex.

# 10 Take a deep breath. You need to take a deep breath and relax. This is not competition, this is sex. You should have fun and enjoy the moment. So don't think about the future as if he / she wants to see you again ... who cares? Live in the moment and enjoy your body.

# 11 Bring the lube. If you are a woman even though you want to have sex, you may be so nervous that you won't be able to get wet. That being said, you'll want to carry a small bottle of lube in your purse. Besides, you don't know, maybe he's well endowed. And in that case, you will pray that you brought lube with you.

# 12 Don't focus on orgasm. Sex is purely psychological. So, you don't want to focus so much on an orgasm. That's not what sex is for. I mean, of course, it's great when you have one, but it shouldn't be your main goal. If you make it the main goal, you will lose the moment you share with that person.

Having sex with a new partner is ... well, let's just say, it's a lot of fun. But, if you are feeling anxious, just follow these tips and you will be able to loosen up and enjoy the moment.