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15 things successful people in their twenties DO NOT do

In order to have a similarly successful career as Mark Zuckerberg, however, you should pay attention to a few things. So we've compiled a list of 15 things that successful people in their twenties did NOT do. If you also want to make a big start in your career, you should take this as an example.

Just rely on education and talent

A high IQ, talent and preferably a degree from Harvard, Yale and Co. guarantee you success? Thought wrong. Without hard work, these things will be of no use to you.

Founder Sylvie di Giusto spent many nights and weekends in her twenties in offices and toiled for her success. She not only sacrificed time for her career, but also showed commitment and an unconditional will to succeed. “I've learned that there are no shortcuts when it comes to success. Success doesn't happen for no reason. Never, ”says di Giusto about this time.

Put your own health at risk

As you get older, you quickly learn that you can no longer party like you did at school. “Your hangover will be so bad at 28 that you don't feel like going to parties anymore,” writes Meggie Sutherland Cutter on “Quora”.

The longer you are out of school, the more dangerous excessive alcohol and cigarette consumption can be on your health.

Communication professor Michael Weston appeals to 20-year-olds to also take care of their mental health. Because between the ages of 20 and 30, mental illnesses such as depression occur most frequently.

Hit the whole income on the head

According to an American study, 69 percent of young adults between the ages of 18 and 29 have no savings for retirement. Although your retirement is still a long way off, you should start thinking about it now and put a few euros aside.

Company founder Aditya Rathnam doesn't see the whole thing as narrowly. At the age of 20 you shouldn't invest a lot in your retirement, he says. However, it can still be an advantage to look into the employer's pension plan - if available.

Equating money with happiness

High office standing and a big raise can keep you satisfied for a short while, but shouldn't be the main reasons for a career. There is much more to it than success, says Joe Choi on "Quora".

You will regret all your life just working towards the raise instead of indulging in your passion.

Put your head in the sand

Ending a relationship, losing your job, or failing your own business can be devastating at first.

But burying your head in the sand now would be the wrong decision. Instead, you should accept this experience as an instructive lesson and draw new courage from it. The well-known fashion icon and Vogue boss Anna Wintour also suffered setbacks in her career. Still, she reiterates the importance of getting fired in the 1970s to her and her career.

“Quora” user Carolyn Cho also agrees with Anna Wintour: “Losing my job and getting up the next day anyway showed me that it doesn't mean the end of the world,” says Cho. "Being abandoned showed me the difference between a good and a bad relationship: a feeling that I had carried around with me for a long time, but didn't want to admit until it was actually over."

Let yourself be determined by someone else

If you are just at the beginning of your professional career, but you do not yet know in which direction it should go, get help from others. But that doesn't mean that you have to do everything that others advise you to do.

The American entrepreneur and “Shark Tank” investor Lori Greiner advises her protégés especially not to allow themselves to be influenced by the opinion of others.

“Your success will primarily depend on how you perceive yourself, because others perceive you just as you perceive yourself,” says Greiner.

Get impatient

For success, it is not crucial whether you are married by your 30th birthday and have forged a 10-year plan. The only thing that counts is “now”. So be patient.

Founder and company boss Kristina Roth says that when she was young, she often put herself under pressure to achieve her goals as quickly as possible. However, this has proven to be very counterproductive to their success. She learned in her twenties to “focus on the important and life-changing decisions,” says Roth today.

Wanting to please everyone

Especially at the beginning of your career or when you start a new job, you are usually particularly careful to be courteous and polite to colleagues and superiors. But when they then react unfriendly, one often feels depressed. But regardless of whether a colleague likes you or not: this has little effect on your success.

According to Carolyn Cho, "there will always be people who dislike you."

Believe that friendship lasts forever

“You think your friends from school will stay with you for a lifetime? Only a few will still belong to your circle of friends until their 40th birthday; most will do their own thing, ”says Sutherland Cutter on“ Quora ”.

Especially when your friends no longer all live around the corner, it quickly becomes apparent who is worth sacrificing time for and who is not.

Avoiding problems

Traveling a lot and living in new places can enrich you culturally and be a life changing experience - especially in your twenties.

But you should never believe that moving will help you avoid problems or suddenly find a new meaning or direction in your life, says Choi.

To isolate yourself

Not only at the beginning of your career it is particularly important to make contact with other people from your industry.

Especially the people around you can be decisive for your success or failure, says Jon Levy, founder of Influencer Networks. “People around you influence how often you do sport, how you dress, how much you earn and which values ​​are important to you. So if you want to live in a world of happiness and success, you have to have relationships with positive people and separate yourself from negative ones. "

Think the world is black and white

Author and investor James Altucher believes that people in their twenties are often caught up in rigid thought patterns.

Some people feel they have to choose between a job that will help them and one that will help others. A healthy egoism is not a bad thing and does not automatically mean that you cannot give anything back to the world.

Waiting for the soulmate

Many people in their twenties choose to remain single and spend this part of their life without a steady partner. Others, on the other hand, are looking for a partner for life and believe that this will suddenly appear in front of them at some point.

But soulmates don't just appear out of nowhere. In real life, long-term relationships require time, work, and dedication. “You have to constantly make sacrifices for this, accept the mistakes of others or justify yourself for your behavior. But you know what - these are exactly the things that are fun in a relationship, ”says Mitesh Jain on“ Quora ”.

Plan everything in advance

“It's hard to predict where your life will lead you,” says Choi on “Quora”.

So avoid driving yourself crazy over multi-year plans and instead focus on timely goals.

Feeling alone with problems

If you are still looking for the right path or for yourself, it often feels as if your friends are one step ahead of you, says Sarthak Pranit on "Quora".

But - regardless of your income, your job or your life situation: You are not alone. Everyone in their twenties struggles with certain problems that they need to solve in the right way for themselves - and that goes for the rest of life as well

 

By Richard Feloni, Jessie Hauser and Carolin Ludwigto Business Insider Germany.